Let the thousand pieces your heart broke into teach you about love and how to really love and what it means to love – first and foremost yourself and then everyone else. Let the darkest corners of your darkness teach you about depth, the depth of the human psyche, and about how to truly understandContinue reading “TURN YOUR DEEPEST PAIN INTO YOUR GIFT”


We need to create a world in which we are not abandoned for feeling what we call “negative” emotions – especially not by ourselves. Abandonment causes immense pain and creates a split within ourselves. We reject, shame and hate the parts of ourselves that once were abandoned by someone else. Growing up in a patriarchallyContinue reading “(SELF)ABANDONMENT”